Giving and receiving feedback: learn to communicate with impact and respect

Discover how BrainTrain guides you toward greater clarity, confidence, and impact in your communication.
THE METHOD

Module overview

Do you recognize these situations?
  • You find it difficult to deliver a negative message, ranging from a minor mistake to a challenging performance review.
  • You hesitate to get straight to the point during a conversation.
  • Employees to whom you provide feedback perceive you as (too) detached.
  • You are unsure how to respond when someone avoids or refutes your feedback.
  • You find it difficult to give feedback for fear of an emotional reaction.
  • You want to provide feedback to a colleague, but it is uncommon within your team.
  • Those who recognize this primarily want to learn how to be honest without causing offense—and how to conduct conversations that truly lead to improvement.
    What do you want to achieve?
  • Communicating clearly and humanely, even with difficult messages,
  • Delivering negative feedback correctly without tension or defensiveness,
  • And maintaining the relationship, even when the conversation becomes challenging.
  • In summary

    After this training, you will be able to deliver a clear message without discomfort, structure and direct a feedback conversation purposefully, handle resistance without letting the conversation derail, and ensure your message is both understood and accepted.
    What do you learn in the training?
    In this practical session, you will learn step-by-step:
  • Methods and techniques for providing structured feedback
  • How to deliver feedback respectfully and humanely
  • Creating the right framework for a feedback conversation
  • What to include to ensure the message is clear and constructive
  • How to protect the relationship, even during difficult feedback
  • You will learn to see feedback as a tool for growth, not as a risk.
  • Receiving feedback

    Do you recognize these situations?
  • Feedback can sometimes be unexpected and hit particularly hard.
  • You do not always feel understood: when you share your vision, no one truly listens.
  • You experience feedback as personal criticism.
  • You sometimes find feedback to be unjustified or incorrect.
  • If you recognize this, you know how challenging it is to remain a calm listener when emotions run high.
    What do you want to achieve?
  • Dealing constructively with feedback, even when it hits hard,
  • Extracting the valuable elements,
  • And staying empowered, even when feedback seems unjustified.
  • In summary

    After this training, you will be able to understand why feedback sometimes hits so hard, correctly interpret the intent and framework of feedback, keep the conversation open despite emotions, filter the essence and use it for growth, and also make your own voice heard so that the dialogue remains mutual.
    What do you learn in the training?
  • Why feedback sometimes affects you so deeply
  • Understanding the framework and impact of feedback
  • Listening through emotions and remaining calm
  • Filtering the value out of feedback
  • Techniques to ensure your conversation partner also listens
  • You will learn to view feedback not as a judgment, but as an opportunity to learn, grow, and connect.

    Result

    open communication and growth in trust

    After this training, you will give and receive feedback in a professional, honest, and constructive manner; build clear, respectful communication; and strengthen trust and collaboration within your team.
    Do you want to learn how to give and receive feedback without tension, misunderstandings, or defensive reactions?

    Ready to get started with this in your team?

    We would be happy to help you develop an approach that works in practice.
    Frequently Asked Questions

    You may still have questions about how we work or what you can expect. Here, we answer the most important ones.

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    Participants will approach their communication with others differently in the broadest sense of the word, even when situations become difficult or tense. They experience more calm and self-confidence, and have a better understanding of what to do instead of simply reacting to events. The difference lies in conscious action: not being at the mercy of the situation or the conversation, but engaging with it actively and curiously. The focus is on individual behavioral change, which has a visible impact on interactions with colleagues, employees, and clients. Participants often notice a difference during the training itself, which is then further reinforced through practical application.
    Yes. Content, methods, language, and cases are fully tailored to the organization’s context. Where necessary, I explicitly immerse myself in the sector, the role, or the workplace itself. Context determines how people communicate and make decisions, and therefore determines how a training program is designed.
    Our training programs are suitable for anyone who works with people and is willing to examine their own behavior. They are less effective when participants are under heavy pressure to attend and show no willingness to open up. We address this explicitly.
    Transfer is central. We work on awareness and practice with real-life situations during the training, so that participants gain successful experiences. Where possible, we provide follow-up with participants and the client, and together we examine which contextual obstacles might hinder practical application.
    The training always starts from the participants’ reality. We work with their own cases, combine reflection with practice and dialogue, and only introduce insights when they are needed. It is not a classroom-style transfer of theory or a PowerPoint-driven training.
    Dealing with resistance is a core competency. We create safety and neutrality, name what is happening, and investigate the needs behind the resistance. We do not force anything, but create space so that participants can move forward again and take responsibility for their own learning process.
    We always start from what is feasible within the available time. There is no fixed format: we adapt to needs, context, and workload. Where meaningful and desirable, we supplement physical sessions with preparation, digital elements, or phased trajectories to use time efficiently.
    We do not work with tricks or imposed behavior. We also look “below the waterline” at beliefs, fears, and automatic patterns that block new behavior. As a result, people dare and are able to apply what they have learned outside the training, in their actual work situation.
    Impact becomes visible in behavior. We work with observations from the client and participants, targeted reflection questions, and feedback during the training. Satisfaction is a starting point, but more important is whether people feel confident enough to effectively apply the new behavior.
    Follow-up steps are always discussed with the client. This could be a debriefing on transfer, additional depth on specific themes, or individual coaching. The client decides what is desirable and feasible within their own context.
    We are happy to think along with you about your context, challenges, and objectives. Not a standard solution, but a targeted approach that works in practice.

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    We help organizations bridge the gap between expertise and impact. Let us know how we can help you.